Southwestern tailgate aficionados are renowned for their meticulous preparation and the spirited enthusiasm that accompanies game day. It’s not unusual to be instructed to simply “arrive as you are” by the host, yet this polite request is often overlooked by those who hold good manners in high regard. Nevertheless, there’s a proper way to express gratitude for the meticulous hosting—be it the tent, the food, the drinks, and everything in between—without encroaching on the host’s wishes.
Instead, arrive with a touch of tailgate cheer that could truly be a boon to your host. Here are six items to bring to a tailgate, even when you’re advised otherwise.
There are specific items that are often in demand at a tailgate, regardless of the host’s provisions.
It’s never a misstep to stash a couple of collapsible outdoor chairs or a picnic blanket in the trunk of your vehicle. If seating appears to be in high demand, you can offer to fetch these, particularly if the tailgate extends into the evening and draws a large crowd.
It’s astonishing how much waste accumulates on game days and at tailgates. Even if the host has provided some bags, you can contribute by replacing them as needed or carrying a few extra in case of an unexpected shortage. The final cleanup typically yields more trash than anticipated.
When in doubt, bring a splash of style to the tailgate that the host will both appreciate and potentially take home as a keepsake. It can boost everyone’s excitement for the game.
Should the host have everything covered in terms of food and drinks, consider a game-day-themed accessory that adds a touch of fun. Cocktail stirrers emblazoned with team logos are a cinch to find online and are convenient to tote in a purse without taking up much room.
Like cocktail stirrers, but with the added benefit of being a take-home gift for the host, reusable frosted cups featuring team motifs are always a hit at a tailgate. These cups are often the first to be taken, and their charm ensures they’re taken home as mementos.
Should you feel comfortable offering a small token, or if you know your host would cherish a food-related gesture, these suggestions will enhance the tailgate experience without causing any inconvenience to the host.
Should you have a favorite dessert recipe or a bakery specialty known to be a crowd-pleaser, bring it as an additional sweet treat. Since tailgates often emphasize savory foods like game dips and grilled dishes, a small box of desserts won’t be out of place.
While the host will be concentrating on offering a variety of drink options, arriving with their preferred wine or the ingredients for their signature cocktail demonstrates thoughtfulness and a subtle thank you. Plus, there’s never a surplus of libations at a lengthy tailgate, and the host will appreciate having the option to use it later.
